ten Approaches to be a greater Boyfriend
What is a Good Boyfriend?
A good boyfriend is someone who cares and loves his loved one. He’s the guy that will always be there for her, even when times are tough. Nobody will know a woman better than her boyfriend. He’ll be there when she’s sad and when she needs someone to get things off her chest. He’ll always make sure mind one that makes her smile.
But he may not be the perfect man- or the perfect boyfriend, for that matter. A good man will still have room to learn and grow.
1. Love her through actions.
Walk your talk. Avoid lies and broken promises because they will certainly break your girlfriend’s heart. Instead, if you want to be the best boyfriend for your girl, be a man of action and give her pure confidence.
2. Work your love harder.
Do you miss her? Why not make your best effort to be with her? Being together with your girlfriend is better than telling her you to miss her through texts, Facebook messages, and other virtual channels.
3. Love and respect yourself.
If you want to be a better boyfriend for your girl, remember to love and respect yourself first.
If you don’t feel good about yourself, how can you expect her to trust you with all her emotions and feelings fully? And if she does, then it means that she is willing to compromise on all those little issues which are tolerable but not acceptable to both of you in the long run.
Girls are naturally caring people. They will love you and always want to see you well. If you know how to take care of yourself, it will be easier for her to love you more. Hence, keep yourself healthy inside and out. Stop smoking, heavy drinking, gluttony, indolence, and other habits that will slowly destroy yourself. Please don’t make her worry about you.
Take care of yourself physically, emotionally, and mentally.
Just because you are in a relationship with her doesn’t mean that she is responsible for your health, mental stability (if there is something wrong), emotional well-being, and overall life success – it depends on yourself as much as it depends on him/her.
Take care of yourself first and foremost; make sure that you always feel good about everything, inside and outside; learn to be happy with who you are by doing things that will make you feel fulfilled no matter what happens around you.
If something is bothering or worrying you, don’t hold back from being honest about it to avoid the conflict or pain – but try to talk it out in an open way by sharing your thoughts and feelings first.
Remember that it is always better to have someone who loves themselves than someone who pretends that they do but supposedly doesn’t, or someone who wants but cannot commit because they don’t want to settle in a relationship.
4. Love her family and friends.
Your girlfriend’s family and friends will always be a part of your life as well, so you need to learn to love them too.
It will make your girlfriend’s life much easier and happier. Loving her family and friends means showing respect and kindness rather than rudeness and envy to them. Love also means rejoicing with the truth and not delighting in evil.
Your girl has her own set of close groups of friends (like the girl circle) – these are usually her best friends in life with whom they share all secrets and stories about you or any other family member or friend.
As a boyfriend, it means so much to your girlfriend if you can appreciate her friends for who they really are – she will feel that her friends in important to you, which is why she deserves your love and attention too!
5. Introduce her to your family and friends.
Being able to introduce her to your family and friends shows how much you trust your girlfriend and how confident you are about her. It is a huge thing for both of you to be a big help if she feels special with your loved ones welcoming her.
Let her know and feel that you’re happy and honored to have her as your girlfriend. It will also give her the confidence that you’re serious and she’s your only one.
6. Know her better.
If you want to be a better boyfriend for your girl, be the one who knows her and her personality best.
Know what she’s all about – from simple things like the kind of clothes she likes to simple stuff like how she takes her coffee. You can also know what makes her happy and sad, what cries out the most in every aspect of life.
It will help you give better support and a deeper understanding of how you can make her smile every day.
Knowing is loving. If you know your partner better, it will make her feel that you’re very interested in her. It also shows that you are paying attention, listening, and watching over her. So do your assignment to know her dos and don’ts – follow the first and avoid the latter.
7. Let her know you better.
Be open and transparent. Let her know your details. Let her see who you truly are. If you really love her, you don’t need to hide something. Let her also accept you for who you truly are.
Show her your true self: how much of a loving person you are and not just an egoistic or arrogant man who doesn’t value his significant other. She doesn’t need to be with someone who will only make her feel miserable, but one who will always be by her side.
8. Value your relationship.
Most women are sentimental about their relationships. Thus, treasure your relationship. Don’t forget your monthsaries, anniversaries, or even the day you two first met. And, of course, value your relationship by always remembering that you’re in a relationship. So don’t act or pretend like you’re a single one to attract or get some extra girls.
9. Honor your partnership.
You are in a relationship, so you’re in a partnership. Don’t make decisions or actions without your partner’s consent or knowledge. For example, if she says don’t hang out with your drinking buddies, follow your queen’s command. Don’t escape and make alibis.
10. Do not cheat.
Don’t cheat. Just don’t cheat. Why? Because you love her, and she loves you.
You two belong to each other. If you cheat, it’s like stabbing your relationship with a knife – slow but really deep. And if your partner found out, she will never forgive and forget it because you are breaking your promise to be faithful forever by cheating on her.